“Describe
your perfect day,” was one of the thought-provoking assignments given during
the Table Topics portion of the ToastMasters meeting. As soon as it was
announced, my heart began to pound, and I fervently hoped the person who’d
given the challenge wouldn’t call on me to stand up and speak on that topic for
at least one minute.
Any
kind of public speaking is scary enough, but to have to stand up, collect your
thoughts, and speak sensibly about a topic that was presented to you just
seconds before, leaving you zero time to figure out what you’re going to say—and
certainly no time to rehearse—makes speaking that much more frightening.
So, whenever I’m called upon during Table Topics, I just start
praying that I’ll have something fairly sensible to say and that I won’t die
from fright! I don’t worry about whether I’ll receive a blue ribbon (like the one shown below) for having
given what those in attendance consider the “Best Table Topics” response. Oh no!
I just worry about surviving the ordeal and also about “saving face.”
Thankfully, I was not called upon to describe my perfect day,
but that assignment intrigued me so much that I decided I’d write out my
response—after I’d gotten home and was sitting on the guest bed, with several
big, comfy throw pillows at my back, a laptop on my lap, my heart beating a
normal rhythm, no eyes upon me eagerly waiting to hear what I’d say…But even
with most of the stress gone, I still had trouble describing what would be a
perfect day for me.
Perhaps the difficulty was due to the fact that I tend to be
happy with almost every day! I like my life. Sure, it would be nice to:
· go on trips to faraway places like New Zealand or Ireland
· win a
million dollars
· be
given a new camera and some new lenses
· see
miracles done in the lives of those who are grieving or are critically ill or
bankrupt
· know
that the world was at peace and that all the soldiers were back home, unharmed
and with their families.
But rather than wish for things that are probably NOT going to
happen, I’ve decided to be content with the life I’ve been given. So, a perfect
day for me is one that holds blessings often taken for granted—for example, to be
able to:
· live
independently in my own home
· do my
own work (yes, even unloading the dishwasher!)
· walk
three or more miles
· eat
healthy foods (but not in excess)
· come
and go as I please
· rest
whenever I’m tired
· talk
to/be with family and friends
· enjoy
my hobbies: reading, taking and editing pictures, writing, walking
· feel
like my life has meaning and purpose, etc.
Bottom line: I feel so very grateful for the life I do have. Although
I have dreams, as well as longings for miracles, I’m content with each day the
Lord gives me. However, if I were to give a lot of thought as to what a perfect
day would look like, I might become discontent with the wonderful life I
currently have. Thus, I’ll give heart-felt thanks for my current blessings, and
if the Lord should opt to give me some of the things I can only dream about at
this point, I’d certainly thank Him for putting extra icing on the proverbial cake He’s already provided for me to enjoy.
(C) 2014 by Johnnie Ann Gaskill