As Nanny (my 95-year-old mother-in-law) sat in her
recliner and stared out the windows in her den, she said softly, “A window just
helps people.”
“Yes, it does. We can watch what’s going on
outside.”
From her “blue chair,” a blue recliner with a motorized
lift under it, she could watch for the mail lady, watch her neighbor remove and
then build a new, large deck (all by herself!), watch a young couple move out
of their house across the street and a new family move in, watch people in the
neighborhood take their daily walks along the sidewalks, watch school buses and
other vehicles go by… Although she was no longer able to take daily strolls or work
in her yard, she stayed “connected” to the outside world from her “blue chair,”
which was her favorite place in the entire house.
I have a favorite place in my house, too: the sofa
in the sunroom. Since I don’t have a street view, as Nanny does, I watch birds (and
squirrels!) at the bird feeders on the deck. I frequently see deer grazing on
clover. I watch fawns running in happy circles. I see tall pine trees and
assorted hardwoods, which are beautiful in all seasons. But, if I go to a
window on another side of my house, the view changes.
While reflecting on the different things that can
be seen through a window, I came across this quote:
Each of us is looking out at life
from a different window in the same house.
Indeed, our life, as well as our environment, looks
different for each of us, depending on what we see through the windows of our
souls.
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